This post is part one of the series: To the Start of Sweet Surrender in November.
Letting Go of Resistance to Being Fully Yourself
At some point, most of us have learned to hold ourselves back — dimming our light to avoid judgment, rejection, or failure. This self-protection is deeply human. Yet, it can quietly become self-restriction: keeping us from expressing the fullness of who we are.
Healthy surrender begins by offering ourselves compassion for that resistance. When we understand that this hesitation is rooted in programming — not personal failure — we can begin to loosen its hold.
Your light is not something to earn; it’s your natural essence, your internal source of power. The more we release guilt, shame, and fear around shining, the more we allow that light to guide us.
Surrender isn’t passive — it’s an active alignment with your highest self. It’s saying yes to learning, yes to growing, and yes to allowing your authenticity to lead the way.
Mantra:
I release resistance and allow my light to shine freely and fearlessly.
Your Next Step
Notice one area of your life where you’ve been dimming your light — perhaps out of habit or fear. This week, choose one small way to let yourself shine a little brighter, and if you’re ready to explore what’s been holding you back, book a free consultation with Gillian. Together, you can uncover how to release resistance, reconnect with your authentic self, and let your inner light guide the way.